from someone who’s been there.

When someone you love has a stroke, everything changes overnight. One minute you’re visiting in the hospital.The next minute you’re responsible for mobility, hygiene, feeding, skin protection, communication, medications — and somehow managing your own exhaustion. I cared for my grandmother after two massive strokes. Nonverbal. Bedbound. Total care. I…

There’s something no one tells you about caregiving. The guilt doesn’t leave when things get easier.It doesn’t leave when you rest.It doesn’t even leave when…

If you’ve been here for a while, you’ve probably noticed something. I recommend tools. Not because I love “stuff.”Not because I think caregiving can be…

(Tools That Reduce Stress, Mess, and Caregiver Exhaustion) Feeding a stroke survivor isn’t just about food.It’s about dignity.It’s about safety.And it’s about surviving three meals…

For years, my identity was simple: caregiver. Not by choice. Not by plan.But by necessity. My days were measured in medication schedules, appointments, repositioning, feeding,…

Caregiver. Chemist. Human.
I’m Meggen — the heart behind The Piney Chemist. After years of intensive caregiving without much support, I started sharing the tools, lessons, and truths I wish someone had told me sooner. This space is for caregivers who feel tired, invisible, and overwhelmed — but keep going anyway. You’re not alone here.